I get it, I really do. They broke your heart and made all that effort you put into the relationship worthless. Maybe they cheated, maybe they did something even worse and just stopped caring at all! One thing is for sure, getting back at the ex girlfriend won’t make the hurting go away!

I got news for you. The only reason you are hurting so bad is that you still love them and you want to get their attention, even if it is in a negative way. Sure, letting her catch you making out with her best friend might make you feel better for a second, but you can kiss ever getting her back goodbye.

That is what you are really after right? You want to fix things, get back together with them! Even if she cheated on you, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you still or you can’t work it out. You need to ask yourself if she is worth the effort and if she is, then you need to switch gears and focus on getting her attention in a positive way.

Focus on being friends first. Be casual and show her it doesn’t have to be weird around you. When you see her just say hey, don’t stop for small talk unless she starts it. Even then, stay for no more than 2 minutes and then tell her you have some stuff you need to do. Don’t make up lame excuses, just tell her you ‘have stuff’ and see if she is willing to give you space, or is she pushing to get back into your business?

The biggest question you need to focus on when deciding how to treat your ex girlfriend is whether you want her back or not. To keep it real with you, if you are reading this right now, chances are you want her back. So don’t make a big mistake, instead be the bigger person and treat her nicely with some respect and that will stick out to her more than any big romantic gesture will. For more information please visit these sites:- https://earnadmob.com/ https://fastfunnels.com/ https://www.utopiaibiza.com/ https://www.adsm.com.sg/ https://www.okconstructioncorp.com/ https://baldandblonde.live/ https://apkdlx.com/

A good rule of thumb for life is to treat people with respect, the way you want to be treated. You would be amazed at the number of doors that open up and the opportunities that you have by just being a nice guy. You would much rather be known as the nice guy than be known as ‘that guy;’ trust me on that one.

Ask yourself the question, if we hadn’t broken up would we still be fighting or would our little issue already be blown over? If it’s something serious, it will take time and patience to get your ex back. If it is something silly and simple, then treating her nicely, like a friend will help you get her back all the faster. You can’t control how she acts to you, but you can show her that you still love her and want her back.